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Parshas Hashavua

עקב - ט"ו באב

הכל בידי שמים חוץ מיראת שמים

רש"י י' י"ב

The Rambam argues on the Gemoro.

How can he do so?

The Rambam (איגרות הרמב"ם) argues on the Chazal of

ארבעים יום קודם יצירת הולד

בת קול יוצאת ואומרת בת פלוני לפלוני*

The Rambam's argument is that this cannot be true, because getting married is a Mitzvah and one of the fundamental principles we believe in is בחירה.

If it is predestined to get married

then he has no בחירה

in performing the Mitzvah.

How can the Rambam argue on Chazal

just because he has a Kushya on them?

סוטה ב' ע"א*

The Rambam argues on the Gemoro

Parshas Hashavua עקב - ט"ו באב הכל בידי שמים חוץ מיראת שמים רש"י י' י"ב The Rambam argues on the Gemoro. How can he do so? The Rambam (איגרות הרמב"ם) argues on the Chazal of  ארבעים יום קודם יצירת הולד בת קול יוצאת ואומרת בת פלוני לפלוני* The Rambam's argument is that this cannot be true, being getting married is a Mitzvah and one of the fundamental principles we believe in is בחירה. If it is predestined to get married then he has no בחירה in performing the Mitzvah. How can the Rambam argue on Chazal  just because he has a Kushya on them? סוטה ב' ע"א*

The Chasam Sofer Reason For The Yom Tov Of Tu Baav

כתיבה וחתימה טובה*

The Gemoro (Moed Katan 9a) says on the Pasuk

(Melochim 1:8:64) וילכו לאהליהם שמחים וטובי לב –

לאהליהם  

They came home and their wives were Tehoros.

 וטובי לב 

They all became pregnant with a Ben Zochor

על כל הטובה 

They were forgiven for eating on Yom Kippur

 The last person to reach his home in Nehar Peros was

on the 7th of Cheshvan (Ta’anis10a)

If you count from the  7th of Cheshvan, 271 days of
pregnancy (Nidah 38a) they will have given birth on the
15th of Av which was their sign of Kaparah.

According to the Chasam Sofer, perhaps we can add an
additional Simcha on Tu B’av.

They all had boys and realized that in a few years from

then there won’t be any more a  Shidduch crisis.

*גימטריה חמשה עשר באב

 **(Drashos 1:P43)

Now thats a matzav             

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The Gematria of חמשה עשר באב is the same as 

כתיבה וחתימה טובה

חמשה עשר באב

Tu baav :

The Gemoro (Sotah 44a):

  ת"ר אשר בנה אשר נטע אשר ארש לימדה

תורה ד"א שיבנה אדם בית ויטע כרם ואח"כ ישא אשה                            

When going to fight in a war, the questions were asked in this order.The reason was  to teach us ones priority in life:

 A)is to build a house 
 B)plant a vineyard and then 
 C)to get married.

The Satmar Rebbe zt”l (Vayoel Moshe, Lashon Hakodesh 2) says that  this Chazal refers to a second marriage. For the first marriage  Marriage comes first, even before Parnasah and housing.

His proof is, The minimum age to serve in the army was 20 years. A person who at age 20, isn't married is a Choteh (sinner) and wasn't eligible to go to war.

For a 20 year old, who never got married, these questions would not be applicable, .

The Pasuk must be referring to someone who was once married already at age 18 and is up to his second marriage.