Tu baav :
The
Gemoro (Sotah 44a):
ת"ר אשר בנה אשר נטע
אשר ארש לימדה
תורה ד"א שיבנה אדם בית ויטע כרם ואח"כ ישא
אשה
When going
to fight in a war, the questions were asked in this order.The reason was to teach us ones priority in
life:
A)is to build a house
B)plant a vineyard and then
C)to get married.
A)is to build a house
B)plant a vineyard and then
C)to get married.
The Satmar
Rebbe zt”l (Vayoel Moshe, Lashon Hakodesh 2) says that this Chazal refers
to a second marriage. For the first marriage Marriage comes first, even before
Parnasah and housing.
His proof is,
The minimum age to serve in the army was 20 years. A person who at age 20, isn't married is a Choteh (sinner) and wasn't eligible to go to war.
For a 20 year
old, who never got married, these questions would not be applicable, .
The Pasuk
must be referring to someone who was once married already at age 18 and is up to his
second marriage.
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