讜ּ诪ְ谞ָ诇ָ谉, 讚ְּ讗ִ讬转 诇讜ֹ谉 诇ְ讬ִ砖ְׂ专ָ讗ֵ诇 诇ְ砖ַׁ转ְּ驻ָ讗
诇ְּ拽讜ּ讚ְ砖ָׁ讗 讘ְּ专ִ讬讱ְ 讛讜ּ讗 讜ּ砖ְׁ讻ִ讬谞ְ转ֵּ讬讛ּ 讘ְּ讞ֶ讚ְ讜ָ讛 讚ִּ诇ְ讛讜ֹ谉. (讘讙讬谉 讚诇讗讜
讗讬讛讜 讞讚讜讛, 讗诇讗 讘砖讜转驻讜转 讚讬诇讬讛 诪讗诇讬谉) 讚ִּ讻ְ转ִּ讬讘, (砖诐 拽诪讟) 讬ִ砖ְׂ诪ַ讞 讬ִ砖ְׂ专ָ讗ֵ诇
讘ְּ注讜ֹ砖ָׂ讬讜. 讛ַ讛讜ּ讗 讞ֶ讚ְ讜ָ讛 讚ְּ讬ִ砖ְׂ专ָ讗ֵ诇 诇ָ讗讜 讗ִ讬讛讜ּ, 讗ֶ诇ָּ讗 讘ְּ注讜ֹ砖ָׂ讬讜.
讘ְּ注讜ֹ砖ָׂ讬讜, 讘ְּ注讜ֹ砖ׂ讜ֹ 诪ִ讘ָּ注ֵ讬 诇ֵ讬讛ּ. 讗ֶ诇ָּ讗 讗ִ诇ֵּ讬谉 拽讜ּ讚ְ砖ָׁ讗 讘ְּ专ִ讬讱ְ 讛讜ּ讗
讜ּ砖ְׁ讻ִ讬谞ְ转ֵּ讬讛ּ, 讜ְ讗ָ讘ִ讬讜 讜ְ讗ִ诪ּ讜ֹ, 讚ְּ讗ַ祝 注ַ诇 讙ַּ讘 讚ְּ诪ִ讬转讜ּ, 拽讜ּ讚ְ砖ָׁ讗 讘ְּ专ִ讬讱ְ 讛讜ּ讗 讗ַ注ְ拽ַ专 诇讜ֹ谉 诪ִ讙ַּ谉 注ֵ讚ֶ谉,
讜ְ讗ַ讬ְ讬转ֵ讬 诇讜ֹ谉 注ִ诪ֵּ讬讛ּ 诇ְ讛ַ讛讜ּ讗 讞ֶ讚ְ讜ָ讛, 诇ְ谞ַ讟ְ诇ָ讗 讞讜ּ诇ָ拽ָ讗 讚ְּ讞ֶ讚ְ讜ָ讛 注ִ诐
拽讜ּ讚ְ砖ָׁ讗 讘ְּ专ִ讬讱ְ 讛讜ּ讗 讜ּ砖ְׁ讻ִ讬谞ְ转ֵּ讬讛ּ. 讻ְּ诪ָ讛 讚ְ讗ַ转ְּ 讗ָ诪ֵ专 (讗讬讜讘
诪׳:讬״讟) 讛ָ注讜ֹ砖ׂ讜ֹ 讬ַ讙ֵּ砖ׁ 讞ַ专ְ讘ּ讜ֹ.
讝讛专 驻专砖转 驻谞讞住
The 讝讛专 writes,
:
"Hashem removes the
deceased
parents from 讙谉 注讚谉 and bring them with
him to participate in the 砖诪讞讛 (wedding) of their
children."
It seems from the 讝讛专 that no invitation is
necessary
for them to attend. (Trust in Hashem to take care of it)
*There is no 诪拽讜专 anywhere about inviting the
deceased
parents to the wedding.
Placing printed invitations (some with return cards)
seems silly.
Placing Kvitlach on top of 拽讘专讬 爪讚讬拽讬诐
was unknown to
the previous generations.
Harav Hagaon R Avrohom Ganichovski ZT"L held, one may
not place anything on top of a 拽讘专 for **personal
benefit.
Therefore, placing a Kvittel or an invitation on a 拽讘专***
would be 讗住讜专
(Based on 讬讜"讚 -砖住"讚-砖住"讞)
*砖诪注转讬 讘砖诐 砖专 讛转讜专讛 讛讙专讞"拽 讝爪"诇
**Only
for the benefit of the 谞驻讟专
***On
top of the standing 诪爪讘讛 would be OK
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