诇讗 转拽讞 讗砖讛 诇讘谞讬
because he is in the freezer
Even if the freezer 转拽谞讛 might have been a noble idea
when it started. (Mori V'Rabi holds it's wrong to force Bachurim
be 注讜讘专 注诇 讚讘专讬 讞讝"诇)
However, by now it undoubtedly is part of the cause for adding
to the misery of the thousands of parents who have daughters
to marry off.
Widening the age gap an additional 4-5 months creates
hundreds of Agunos, girls who will never get married.
Every Shadchan for Yeshivish families will tell you that in
his/her inventory there are at least 4-5 times as many girls
than boys.
Narrowing the age gap between boys & girls, will increase the
Shadchan's inventory of boys and will enable more girls to get married.
IMAGINE If all the Bachurim stuck in the freezer were released
right at the beginning of the Zman and added to the inventory
of the Shadchanim how it will improve the situation.
The 诪讛专砖"讗 explains the Gemoro (Shabbos 31)
that 诇讗讞专 诪讗讛 讜注砖专讬诐 one of the first questions one
will be asked is ? 注住拽转 讘驻专讬讛 讜专讘讬讛 it doesn't say 拽讬讬诪转
but 注住拽转 because one will be asked if he was busy
helping others get married.
All those who want to be able to answer 讻谉,注住拽转讬 讘驻专讬讛 讜专讘讬讛
should get involved in helping to solve the catastrophic
Shidduch crisis.
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