Whose Minhag is it ?
R. Y. M. Tukachinsky zt"l (Sefer Eretz Yisroel 18-3) writes “ The
Sefardim & Chasidim celebrate Lag Baomer and light fires.”
Seems, that the non Chasidic Ashkenazim have no such minhag .(in E.Y.)
Ther 4-60 (Munkatch Rebbe) writes “ Lag Baomer
celebrations (music & dancing etc.) are only for Eretz Yisroel.
In Chutz La'oretz these celebrations are strange and haughty .
כזרות יחשב וכיוהרא “
Seems, in Chutz La'oretz even Chasidim have no such Minhag.
And you thought we are not משנה כקוצו של יוד