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Almost all mitzvos and minhagim we do, are because The Torah or Chazal commanded us to do so. Some mitzvos come along with a segula,* 1 but the primary reason for doing it, is not for the segula but because the Torah commanded us to do so. The minhag of Kaparos is different, the sole purpose to do it is for the segula. Rashi (Shabbos 81b) brings the Teshuvas Hagaonim . “ Twenty two days or fifteen days before Rosh Hashana they planted for every child in the house a bean in a flower pot. On erev Rosh Hashana they swung the new plant over the head of the child and said zeh chalifasi etc. Afterwards the plant was thrown into the river*2. The Magen Avraham (O. Ch 605) claims this Rashi(Teshuvas Hageonim) to be the mekor for Kaporos. The Segulah If there was chas v’sholom a gezeira for someones child to die, by doing this exercise and davening the gezeira should be transferred to a different zerah (the bean) we confuse the satan between his zerah (child) and the zerah (plant) in the flower pot. (We find the concept k’dei l’arvev hasatan in other places as well). Kaparos for infants and the unborn are done for the sole purpose, that they shouldn’t die ch.v. The Tur (O.Ch. 605) brings our minhag of using chickens for kaparos. Here again it is to confuse the satan. A man is called gever and a rooster is called gever. We daven that the gzeiras misa should be transferred from the gever (man) to the other gever (rooster) We do not use a rooster for a female because she is not called gever. We still need to find a reason why we use a hens for females. · *1 kibbud av v’eim-arichas yomim · *2 Most children die from misas askera, drowning & askera are both misas chenek |
Daf Yomi
Pesachim 38a
מצות של מעשר שני לדברי חכמים אדם יוצא בו ידי חובתו
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One
day in this week בני אשכנז may follow
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One day in this week בני אשכנז may follow
the פסק of the מחבר in שלחן ערוך.Parshas ויגש
Sotah 49a
דאמרי אינשי
"רחמי דאבא אבני, רחמי דבני אבני דהוו
ליה"
'The love of a father,
is for his children.
The love of his children
are for their children."
(more love to your children than
to your parents)
We find in this weeks Parsha . Yehudah was
pleading
to Yosef to allow Binyomin to return to his
father
otherwise his father (Yakov) will die.
Why not plead
about the suffering of Binyomin's ten
sons ?
The Kotzker Rebbe answers "From here we see
parents are in more pain when their children are
suffering than the pain children have when
their parents
are suffering".
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I asked my Rebbie Shlita, How are the Rebbes who
light Chanuka candles in their Bais Midrash (and not in their homes) Yotzei Mitzvahs Ner Chanukah? His answer was "He doesn't know" Perhaps there is someone who does know and would like to share it with the Oilam. |
לז"נ אבי מורי
ר' צבי יהודה פרידמן זללה"ה יום השנה -ל' כסליו א' דר"ח
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הנרות הללו קדש הם ואין לנו רשות להשתמש בהן
PARSHAS HASHAVUA
ויאמר ראובן אל אביו לאמר את שני בני תמיתפ'...